Read about narcissism: the following two books are excellent if you want to find out what narcissism is or if you suspect that you or a loved one has been subject to narcissistic abuse.  Danu’s book is a bit more personal or emotional, and Karyl’s slightly more scientific and neutral, but both authors clearly highlight the tremendous impact a narcissist can have on an individual’s life. I cried a lot. It was and still is painful, but uncovering the truth is worth it, because it sets you free. Feel free to reach out to me if you find yourself in a situation with a narcissist, if you have any questions or just feel like it.